Monday, March 22, 2010

It's another NO.

This is so hard to write, but we got another NOT PREGNANT this morning. We are both heart broken. I have no idea what the future holds for us in the area of children. After 2 years, both of us trying, 3 surgeries, and $40,000 we are done for the moment. We are really on a break and only time will tell if we will ever be able to revisit this dream again in the future.

I wish you all the best and tons of luck on your journeys. I will keep this blog up a while so I can still find all of you and continue to cheer you on.

28 comments:

  1. Oh that is the saddest news - so not fair. I was so hoping for a different outcome. Sending huge(((( hugs)))) to both of you. I hope that after this break something appears as a solution.

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  2. I'm so sorry for this outcome. :(

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  3. I feel sooooo sad for you both! I hope that again you may be able to have the dream of children in your lives some how:) Know that I am thinking about you both! I do agree....so NOT fair!

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  4. Oh sweetie, I am so so sorry. This news is just heartbreaking. I hate that you guys have to wait, grieve and re-think again after all you have been through. Unfair!!! I hope you will post when you feel up to it. Words aren't enough...., ((hugs))

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  5. Oh girls, I was thinking of you all weekend and hoping for great news this morning. My heart is breaking for you. I'm so sorry. Please, please let me know if I can do anything for you. Sending lots of love.

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  6. I too was thinking of you ladies all weekend and I'm so very sorry. Please let me know if there is anything we can do. Missing you and sending love.

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  7. I am so sorry to hear this. We will be here when you decide how to move forward. I wish wityh all my heart that this news was different. Hugs.

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  8. No! I am so very sorry. I wish I could say more, do more. I don't understand why this has to be so hard. Huge hugs to you.

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  9. I'm so very sorry. Hoping you two find solace in each other.

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  10. This makes me so sad. I had hoped you both would get what you were looking for.

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  11. I'm so sorry for the negative, the pain, the money and the years.

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  12. I am so sorry! This ttc stuff is SO hard, especially when you keep hitting walls. Try to enjoy your break and each other. I'm thinking of you two.

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  13. I am so sorry! Let me know if you begin to look into adoption. But for now, just enjoy the break and focus on each other!

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  14. I'm so sorry. I must be going through a hyper-emotional-over-the-injustice-of-it-all phase because reading this post brought me to tears.

    I know there are no words that can change how awful this is, so I'm just sending love and hugs.

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  15. A- I am here hon and I will be here and keep listening and being there. I know this place and I am very very sad and sorry that it has happened to you both.. and you are both sitting in this horrible place right now. Be gentle to yourselves. I will still listen... contact me if it helps... ezerine@yahoo.com

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  16. sorry.. I know there is nothing that I can say to make you feel better, but sending my love. xoxo

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  17. I'm so very sorry. I can relate on every level and understand just how hard it is to be uncertain as to whether or not children will be a part of your future. Just continue to take good care of each other while you get through tomorrow and so on. With each new day there is new hope...

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  18. I'm so sorry, I really wish that this couldv'e been the one.

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  19. I am so so sorry. I wish I make it better. I can only imagine what you are feeling right now.

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  20. I'm so sorry. Hope you get some time together to begin to heal.

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  21. I am so, so sorry. I had my fingers crossed and hopes up for you...

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  22. I am so, so terribly sorry to read this. I'm thinking of you both.

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  23. I'm so sorry. I really isn't fair that this is so hard for some people. I wish you the best in wherever you go from here.

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  24. I come by way of LFCA and want to say how sorry I am for your long struggle with no baby to show for it. Heartbreaking.

    Just glancing down your timeline list I can see our TTC journey has much in common (even your two furry kids bare a VERY strong resemblance to our two). My partner and I spent 3 years and many dollars on similar surgeries trying to get pregnant, although only using my body and eggs. It was a change to our IVF laws here in Australia (back around 2002) that allowed me as an "unmarried woman" to finally be able access IVF. The cycle was immediately after removal of yet another polyp...and resulted in a healthy baby boy born early 2004. It was only weeks before my 40th birthday.

    My hope for you both is to grow your family with a child, like we were finally able to. I hope there is a way for you to....
    Best wishes
    Jennette

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  25. I am so very sorry. You both deserve a sticky BFP so badly. I know you must be just devastated right now. My heart goes out to you both.

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